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Think carefully about the impact of each of these pitfalls on you and your relationships… have they made you more susceptible to Heartbreakers? Or even sabotaged a promising relationship with a decent guy who could have been really good for you?

If so, it’s time to move onto the million dollar question… WHY have you been doing these things?

Maybe you learned to ‘do relationships’ this way a long time ago. Inadequate role models in early life often leave us with some very bad habits that we need to unlearn. You can find out more about this in PART 2: WHY, WHY, WHY? and later in the programme I’ll also share some powerful research into the ‘good habits’ that are most likely to lead to happy and long lasting relationships.

However, falling into these pitfalls on a regular basis can also be a clue to Emotional Baggage from the past that could be affecting your behaviour, choices and self-esteem… and this can make it really difficult to change.

from the past that could be affecting your behaviour, choices and self-esteem… and this can make it really difficult to change.

If you’ve found yourself in complicated or painful relationships, PART 2 can help you explore WHY this might be happening and what you may need to fix, while PART 3: UNBREAK YOUR HEART FOR GOOD has some tools and information to help you fix it.

It’s also possible that you need to choose your relationships more carefully. PART 4: THE RELATIONSHIP WISHLIST has lots of tools to help you with this. You might also need to learn and apply some new relationship skills and, if so, there’s help available in PART 5: THE RELATIONSHIP TOOLKIT.