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Were you aware of doing lots of things that could potentially cause problems in your relationships? Have you been learning from experience so you don’t repeat the same mistakes? If so, that bodes well for the future.

Think carefully about why you did each of these things and what impact they had on you and your relationships, so you can decide what, if anything, to do differently going forward. Some are more potentially damaging than others, but falling into any of them could make you more susceptible to Heartbreakers.

If you’re not sure that you can avoid these pitfalls in future, and especially if you’re attracted to Heartbreakers, we need to get to the bottom of this and find out why. We should also explore whether there’s anything else you’re doing that’s getting in the way of your relationships. You’ll find lots of help with this in PART 2: WHY, WHY, WHY?

It’s also possible that you need to choose your relationships more carefully. PART 4: THE RELATIONSHIP WISHLIST has lots of tools to help you with this. You might also need to learn and apply some new relationship skills and, if so, there’s help available in PART 5: THE RELATIONSHIP TOOLKIT.